Managing stress learning guide

Overview

We can all relate to stress, we can all describe what it feels like to be pressurised. When pressure in our lives becomes intolerable, whether due to physical or psychological demands, then difficulties in coping arise and can lead to feelings of anxiety. Before you realise it pressure has become stress. This is where the positive pressure that motivates and enhances effectiveness becomes negative, with the result that we no longer operate at our best.

We all have our own stress threshold, but it is not always easy to recognise what our optimum level is. For each individual there is a point where stress becomes distress. When we reach this point we are no longer effective. The point at which pressure becomes stress is the point at which our perceived level of pressure is greater than our perceived ability to cope with it. Perception is a very important element of stress. For example, redundancy can have profound psychological and physical effects on one individual and be seen as a wonderful opportunity by another. Why the difference? We come back to cognitive processes; the way we think and perceive the world. How and why we perceive events in certain ways is complex and due to many things; personality, past experience, internal beliefs, self esteem, confidence, assertiveness.

Triggers for stress

Certain events which are part of everyday life have the potential to raise stress levels and have a cumulative affect particularly when they occur over a short period of time. Key triggers in your personal life could be death of a loved one, divorce/separation, illness/injury, moving house, marriage or the birth of a child. On the work side, threat of redundancy, work relationships, too much or too little work, aggressive management and long working hours are some of the key culprits. There are obviously many more.

How do I know if I’m stressed?

Stress can manifest itself in a number of ways. On a physical level, you may get more headaches, digestive problems, allergies, skin problems, palpitations. On a psychological level you may be more moody, feel angry, be unable to concentrate, be fearful of the future or tearful. You may also notice changes in your behaviour such as increased smoking and drinking, loss of interest in enjoyable activities. Everyone is different and stress will show in different ways.

Techniques for managing stress

Knowing what causes you stress and the way you respond to it, will enable you to choose appropriate strategies. Usually it requires a mixture of approaches:

  • Prevention – avoiding stress.
  • Managing stress – altering responses to stress.
  • Coping with stress – palliative.

Managing stress is the most proactive technique. The first steps in managing stress start when this recognition dawns, for then you can begin to do something about it. Whatever you feel about your circumstances, whatever your problems, whether at home or at work, the good news is you can do something about it. The most important thing to remember is you have a choice. You have a choice over how you respond to pressures and stress. You have a choice over how you handle time pressures at work, how you respond to redundancy, marital separation, demanding management. The fact is you really are in control. No one is saying it is easy, but just accepting responsibility for our own feelings immediately puts us in control.

Short term panaceas for stress are numerous, e.g. an evening at home, relaxation techniques, having a massage or indeed a good night’s sleep, but they do not confront the causes. Be wary of insidious panaceas for stress such as alcohol, drugs, comfort eating, excessive smoking. They do not deal with the causes of stress, are potentially harmful and their effects are short lived.

Dealing with the causes of stress in a positive way requires us to challenge the situation in which we find ourselves, review perceptions of who we, consider our personal rights and our ability to control events around us. This needs some shifts in thinking from being a victim of stress to taking control. We have to take the initiative, control stress rather than being controlled by it. It may feel strange, frightening even, and will not happen over night, but you will build upon small successes. Challenging your outlook will be less frightening than living with the feelings of stress than can be so debilitating. It requires moving outside our comfort zone.

Stress tips

  • Avoid being a victim to stress – take action.
  • Learn to recognise the symptoms of stress.
  • Identify the sources of stress, what can be changed and what cannot be changed.
  • Recognise your strengths and weaknesses but keep a positive outlook, see the challenge.
  • Manage tasks, time, pace yourself, delegate
  • Learn to say ‘no’.
  • Look after your health, exercise regularly.
  • Be realistic about what you want to achieve.
  • Practise relaxation techniques, meditation, look for the silver lining.
  • Do not bottle it up or blame others; identify strategies that work for you.
  • Be aware of negative thought processes, replace with positive feelings of self worth, ‘I can…’ ‘I have the right to…’.
  • Keep a sense of humour.
  • Build support networks.

Want to learn more?

If you have less than an hour read the In depth section which was written by Liz Carroll an Ashridge associate.

If you have longer take a look at some of the development activities and read the review of Stephen Williams’ and Lesley Coopers’ Managing workplace stress. Once you have read through the in depth section, test your knowledge by attempting the short quiz.

In Depth

Introduction

According to Time magazine we live in a ‘time famine’ where life is getting more and more complicated as the time available to us gets shorter and shorter. We seem to have to run twice as fast just to stay in one place. We feel pressurised. We feel stressed. What is it about the way that we live today that makes us feel this way, and is there anything we can do about it? More importantly just what exactly are we talking about here? Is this some new disease of the 21st century? Something that is part and parcel of taking on new responsibilities, whether at home or at work? Is there a certain inevitability about it all? Concepts of pressure and stress vary, and therein lies part of the problem.

We can all relate to stress, we can all describe what it feels like to be pressurised, but what causes stress itself is perhaps less well defined. There are a variety of stress management techniques to choose from, which focus on different aspects of the stress response. Apart from endeavouring to manage personal stress, employers are also going to have to address questions of stress management in relation to employees, by defining their responsibility in relation to health and safety.

The good news on stress is that it is not all bad. Feeling stressed on occasions is a healthy natural response. Prolonged stress though is something else.

The aim is to harness the energy that comes from feeling stressed and make it work for us in positive ways. What is encouraging is that whether you are exploring stress from a personal or an employer perspective, there are a number of strategies you can pursue that will enable you to handle pressure in a more positive way and manage stress more effectively.

This learning guide will consider concepts of pressure and stress, and explore some of the causes of stress both at home and at work. Consideration will be given to raising awareness of the physiological and psychological effects of stress, as research indicates that being able to recognise stress in this way is a crucial part of any stress management strategy. Practical strategies for handling pressure and controlling stress will be suggested. Given the growing recognition of the role that organisations and managers have in managing occupational stress within their employees, consideration will be given to organisational strategies for stress management. So in very practical ways, let’s explore further.

Pressure and stress in perspective

It’s Friday. It’s been a hectic week and all you want to do is get home and forget about work. That is, until you remember you have relatives staying for the weekend. That means the garage door that has needed fixing for the last month will have to wait another week. You have got to pick up the dry cleaning on the way home and it’s your niece’s birthday tomorrow and you have forgotten to get her a card. Well, you will just have to phone her over the weekend. Never mind, one of these days you are going to get organised when you have a bit more time. If only life wasn’t so busy at the moment. Pressures at work are increasing and it seems you never have a free weekend.

Sound familiar? All too familiar probably. We can all recognise when we are feeling pressurised, and we can all relate to feelings of stress in both our personal and professional environments. We know that on the whole we don’t like feeling pressurised, and feelings of stress and anxiety can be uncomfortable, even frightening on occasions. We also do not like to feel out of control. On such occasions it may be obvious that you are not coping and you feel something needs to be done, but with so many competing demands, just what that is, is not always obvious. We know we cannot avoid stress completely and handling pressure – well it’s all part of life isn’t it?

Pressure and stress are certainly part of life, in fact we feel pressure and experience stress for reasons of basic survival. We may recognise that a certain amount of pressure at work is stimulating and that it makes us more effective, but we don’t want too much. There needs to be a balance. Finding the balance can be difficult to identify, and it is not the same for everyone. Each of us is unique and we respond to events in our life differently. One person’s excitement and exhilaration can be another person’s terror. For instance driving a Formula 1 car is an everyday, albeit exciting experience for a Formula 1 driver. For many others the experience would be completely terrifying ! The thought of having to do a presentation to your boss may be seen as an opportunity to demonstrate your capabilities, or it might fill you with untold terror. To be able to counteract the effects of stress, research has indicated that having an awareness of the stressors (aspects of your life that cause stress) better equips us to identify appropriate coping mechanisms [(1)]. Therefore it is worth exploring our understanding of pressure and stress and their potential causes.

So what do we mean by pressure?

If asked to explain pressure we would all come up with our own understanding of what pressure is, and we would all be right. Arroba et al. [(2)] define pressure as ‘the aggregate of all demands placed on you’. Pressure comes from an accumulation of demands which can be either physical or psychological.

  • Physical demands such as playing sports, illness or going on a long haul flight take their toll physically on our bodies.
  • Psychological demands such as increased workload, redundancy or promotion, and general demands on your time, can lead to feelings of psychological burden.

When the pressures increase beyond our ability to cope, we begin to feel pressurised, but let’s not start seeing pressure in a totally negative light. We need a certain amount of pressure in our lives to be effective, but pressure is positive only when the pressure is equalled by the individual’s capacity to cope.

Anxiety

Do not be put off by the word anxiety. Anxiety is a normal healthy reaction to dangerous or threatening situations, or can arise when you are worried about something. Moderate amounts of anxiety actually improve performance. Someone who does not feel anxious before a job interview or a student who does not feel anxious before an exam would not perform at their optimum. Anxiety is only a problem when it continues after the immediate threat has gone or when there is no apparent reason to feel anxious.

When pressure becomes stress

When pressure becomes intolerable, whether due to physical or psychological demands, then difficulties in coping arise and can lead to feelings of anxiety. Before you realise it pressure has become stress. This is where the positive pressure that motivates and enhances effectiveness becomes negative, with the result that we no longer operate at our best. Atkinson [(3)] defines stress as ‘an excess of perceived demands over an individual’s perceived ability to meet them’. From everyday life we recognise occasions where excessive demands or particular situations have led to feelings of pressure or anxiety, but on the whole we can deal with it. How much pressure each of us can handle is personal and varied. We all have our own stress threshold, but it is not always easy to recognise what our optimum level is. For each individual there is a point where stress becomes distress. When we reach this point we are no longer effective, although we may think we are being effective because we seem to be working harder. An individual’s perception of stress is all important.

  • Individuals feel stressed when their perception of control is low.
  • Boredom can be equally stressful. Having little to do at work may be a welcome change after the completion of a demanding project or at the end of a particularly hectic period, but would not be very satisfying in the long term.
  • When boredom sets in pressure is low and creativity gives way to lethargy and low energy levels.
  • As pressure increases you become more alert, invigorated and ready for action. When pressure increases tension, increases and if the pressure is maintained consistently high we begin to struggle to cope.

Figure 1. demonstrates how increases in pressure effect our performance, and how when the pressure becomes too much it compromises not only our performance but can also affect our health.

Fig. 1.

So there is a healthy dimension to pressure and stress. It stretches and challenges individuals and can be exciting and fun. Equally it can be a negative force, reducing competence, lowering confidence and making us less effective.

Sources of stress

Stress is not an affliction, it is not even a modern day phenomena, but today’s causes and characteristics certainly are. Holmes and Rahe (1969) [(4)]identified that certain events which are part of everyday life have the potential to raise stress levels and have a cumulative affect particularly when they occur over a short period of time. A selection of the key personal life events of particular relevance are highlighted below, along with aspects of work life that can have a similar affect. The list is by no means complete, you will probably think of many more.

Personal

  • Death of loved one
  • Divorce/separation
  • Personal injury or illness
  • Marriage
  • Moving house
  • Going on holiday
  • Birth of a child

Work

  • Threat of redundancy
  • Work relationships
  • Too much or too little work
  • Aggressive management
  • Work deadlines
  • Promotion
  • Long working hours

Each of us is vulnerable to pressure and stress in different ways, depending on our perceptions of what happens to us, and the level of control we believe we exercise over such events. This makes the identification of the causes of stress very personal and arbitrary. For example, redundancy can have profound psychological and physical effects on one individual and be seen as a wonderful opportunity by another. Why the difference? We come back to cognitive processes; the way we think and perceive the world. There is a Chinese proverb that says about two thirds of what we see is behind the eyes. In other words our perception and interpretation of situations and events affect how we respond to them. How and why we perceive events in certain ways is complex and due to many things; personality, past experience, internal beliefs, self esteem, confidence, assertiveness.

Our view of the world is a mixture of all these things and colours our perceptions of what happens to us. If our personality is generally confident we believe in our capabilities, then we are more likely to perceive adverse events as temporary, manageable and within our control. The problem is viewed as a challenge from a positive perspective. Individuals with low confidence and self esteem, and low perceptions of control may view the same situation in a completely different way, feeling powerless and controlled by events, seeing only the negative aspects. If pressurised to cope, anxiety may build up, leading to feelings of stress. What we are discovering here is the ability and the importance of our thought processes to assimilate and comprehend events. This chain of events is depicted in figure 2.

Figure 2.

Responses to stress

We can see how important our perceptions are in triggering a stress response. Perceptions of stress occur at an emotional level, and we respond in three ways: physical, psychological and behavioural. Let’s explore these further because strategies for stress management are founded on tackling these three response areas.

Physiological response

Stress is essentially a biochemical and physiological response. Physiological responses to threats or feelings of danger have changed little since the human race first roamed the earth. Originally our ancestors fought to survive in order to meet very basic human needs which today we take for granted, such as the need for warmth, food and shelter. Dangers were inherent in the environment and along with an instinct for survival, humans were equipped with physiological responses which enabled them to confront the physical dangers. This response is known as the fear, fright and flight response.When we perceive danger, the brain prepares the body for action by sending specific hormones or chemical messengers to various parts of the body. For instance, think about a near miss in your car you may have had. How did you feel physically? Did your muscles tense, heart rate increase, skin go cold? We all know the feeling of that rush of adrenaline. Figure 3 demonstrates how the body physiologically prepares itself to fight the perceived danger.

Figure 3.

Symptom – why?

  • Pupils dilate – To improve vision and focus.
  • Heart rate increases – To pump blood, glucose and oxygen to vital areas, eg muscles, lungs.
  • Breathing increases – To increase oxygen supply to bloodstream to enable clearer thinking, improved mobility, increased strength.
  • Dry mouth, pale skin – Blood diverted to muscles and vital organs.
  • Muscles tense – In readiness for action.

When the event has passed the body returns to its normal relaxed state in order to recuperate.

Although today we no longer have to fight hairy mammoths, the fear, fight and flight response remains to protect us in dangerous situations. Unfortunately today it is also triggered by events that have nothing to do with physical safety and basic survival.

Psychological threats provoke the same physical response. A job interview, pressure at work or public speaking can all become stress triggers. As we acknowledged earlier this is not necessarily a bad thing as we can see how the above physical reactions enhance our ability to perform. Problems arise when the stressful period is perpetuated and the stress hormones remain circulating in the blood stream, maintaining the body in a high state of arousal.

Major events in our life such as divorce, the threat of redundancy or working to constant deadlines are pressures that can maintain a constant excessive level of stress. It is not appropriate to fight or run away from such stressful situations. Consequently the body remains wound up unable to release energy, increasing not only psychological pressure but also causing wear and tear on key organs of the body. For example prolonged stress on vital organs such as the heart and digestive system can lead to physical problems, weakening the body’s defence mechanisms against disease. Medical research indicates that stress is strongly related to coronary heart disease, ulcers, stroke, skin conditions, even cancer.

Psychological and behavioural responses

Man is not disturbed by events, but by the view he takes of them

Epictetus

Thanks to the wonders of human nature, no two individuals react to circumstances in exactly the same way. How we respond psychologically to pressure depends on a number of variables and how we may be feeling at the time. Being asked to take on extra work while someone is away on holiday may not be a problem if we have few other work pressures. On the other hand it could lead to feelings of tremendous pressure if we already have pressures from other sources, be they work or family related. Psychologically we feel burdened. Consequently we may:

  • retreat into ourselves, feeling inadequate, depressed or even angry.
  • be unable to concentrate or decide on priorities.
  • exert pressure on ourselves, ‘I must be able to do this’, ‘I should be able to cope’, ‘I ought to try and please’.
  • evoke changes in behaviour such as increased smoking among smokers, difficulties in sleeping or decreases in activity.

Responses to pressure are learned at an early age. They reflect reward systems, previous experience and our belief in ourselves. We all know that little voice inside our head which appears every now and then to describe and interpret the world. If it perceives the world around you in an accurate and rational way then its working well. If on the other hand it perceives situations in an irrational and negative way it’s becomes destructive, leading to feelings of self doubt and low self esteem. Many of these stressful situations are part of everyday life and generally we have no problems in coping. It is only when they become compounded by other events in our personal or work life, that the increased demands on our personal reserves diminishes our coping ability.

How can you tell if you are stressed

Being aware that you are stressed is not as obvious as it may sound. The signs of stress do not suddenly appear. They manifest themselves slowly over time and increase in intensity. Feelings of stress can become habitual. Perceptions, attitudes and beliefs sustain the pressure, which become a way of life. Prolonged stress reduces our ability to handle what previously might have been regarded as manageable. Symptoms of stress will vary but you may recognise some of the following symptoms :

  • Physical

Headaches, constantly tired, neck ache, digestive problems, heartburn, tense muscles, allergies, skin problems, palpitations, blurred vision, loss of appetite.

  • Psychological

Feeling anxious, worried, irritated, angry, frustrated, depressed, moody, helpless, tearful, unable to concentrate or make decisions, fear of the future.

  • Behavioural

Excessive smoking, increased alcohol intake, aggressive behaviour, loss of interest in work and previous enjoyable activities, absenteeism from work.

These symptoms may be experienced as part of normal everyday life, but become a concern when they have no obvious cause or when they become prolonged over time.

Measuring your stress vulnerability

Try this simple test to discover your vulnerability to stress. Mark yourself on the scale for each of the 20 statements.

1 Once I’ve started something, I must finish it 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I don’t mind leaving something temporarily unfinished
2 I often interrupt in the middle of a conversation 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I am a good listener, I let people finish speaking
3 I’m always on the go 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I consider that I am fairly easy going
4 I feel I am usually the responsible one 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I feel limited responsibility
5 I don’t mind taking work home or working weekends 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I don’t feel you should take work too seriously
6 I’m never late for appointments 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I don’t get worked up over appointments
7 I frequently set deadlines 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I don’t bother about setting deadlines
8 I pay attention to detail 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I don’t worry over small details
9 I’m highly competitive 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I’m not at all competitive
10 I’m a very animated speaker 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I’m calm and deliberate in speech
11 I’m always in a hurry 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I never rush things, even when pressurised
12 I like exact information, eg how much, at what time 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I don’t worry about the precise figures
13 I hate having to wait 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I don’t mind having to wait
14 I want swift promotion 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I’m very satisfied in my work
15 I’m always juggling more than one thing at a time 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I take things one at a time
16 Work is my main interest 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I enjoy many interests
17 I need recognition for what I do 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I’m not interested in what others think
18 I generally eat, drink walk quickly 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I take my time doing things
19 I don’t discuss feelings 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I can express my feelings well
20 I push hard 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 I’m easy going

Add up your score. How did you do?

Your score:

  • Score 80 – 140

You certainly have high expectations of yourself and set your sights high, consequently you put a lot of pressure on yourself. Consider those questions where you scored high. What can you do to reduce your score? For instance if work is your main interest, consider those things that you would like to do if only you had more time. What could you do to change the pattern of your work to allow you more leisure time?

  • Score 60 – 79

Certain aspects of your lifestyle may need exploring. Look at those questions where you scored highly. What aspects of your life do they cover? Are they aspects of your life you would like to change? What strategies could you employ to reduce your score?

  • Score 20 – 59

You have a very relaxed approach to life and not a lot upsets you. Life is not too demanding and you feel able to cope with most things. Nonetheless, are there any scores which you would like to change that you are not happy with?

Stress management

Mechanisms for handling stress will be different for each individual. Knowing what causes you stress and the way you respond to it, will enable you to choose appropriate strategies. Usually it requires a mixture of approaches:

  1. Prevention – avoiding stress.
  2. Managing stress – altering responses to stress.
  3. Coping with stress – palliative.

Avoiding stress is one way of dealing with the problem but it is not always possible, realistic or indeed very positive. Managing stress is a more proactive approach, implying control, responsibility and acceptance over pressure and stress in our lives while employing effective strategies to control it. Coping with stress is a palliative approach that aims to rehabilitate and restore previous functioning, usually incorporating stress management techniques.

Psychological and behavioural approaches to stress management

Recognising stress in oneself can be surprisingly difficult. Stress can be so insidious and feel so normal, that it does not become apparent until a major problem arises.

The first steps in managing stress start when this recognition dawns, for then you can begin to do something about it. Whatever you feel about your circumstances, whatever your problems, whether at home or at work, the good news is you cando something about it. Themost important thing to remember is you have a choice.You have a choice over how you respond to pressures and stress. You have a choice over how you handle time pressures at work, how you respond to redundancy, marital separation, demanding management. The fact is you really are in control. No one is saying it is easy, but just accepting responsibility for our own feelings immediately puts us in control.

Short term panaceas for stress are numerous, eg an evening at home, relaxation techniques, having a massage or indeed a good night’s sleep, but they do not confront the causes. Be wary of insidious panaceas for stress such as alcohol, drugs, comfort eating, excessive smoking. They do not deal with the causes of stress, are potentially harmful and their effects are short lived.

Dealing with the causes of stress in a positive way requires us to challenge the situation in which we find ourselves, review perceptions of who we, consider our personal rights and our ability to control events around us. This needs some shifts in thinking from being a victim of stress to taking control. We have to take the initiative, control stress rather than being controlled by it. It may feel strange, frightening even, and will not happen over night, but you will build upon small successes. Challenging your outlook will be less frightening than living with the feelings of stress than can be so debilitating. It requires moving outside our comfort zone(Figure 4).

Figure 4. Challenging our comfort zone

Our comfort zone is the area in which we operate where we feel comfortable, outside of which we begin to feel uneasy or anxious. For instance, you may feel happy about doing a presentation to colleagues at work, but extremely uncomfortable about giving the same presentation to two hundred people at a conference. Equally, learning to be assertive, to say no to demands made upon us can be very uncomfortable when we like to please, but you can do it when you know how. The more you do it the less uncomfortable you will feel.

Ships in harbour are safe – but that’s not what ships are made for’. John Shedd [(5)]

Psychological and behavioural approaches attempt to put events into perspective. Each individual needs to find a balance between finding the appropriate challenges that will allow personal development and control over our responses, while also recognising unrealistic expectations. Do not try to change things you cannot change, over which you have no control. Go with change, accommodate it rather than fight against it. Fighting what is outside our control can be demoralising and exhausting. Look for the opportunities change presents, there are always opportunities but they are not always obvious because we do not choose to look for them.

Assertiveness

A sense of self worth and being master of our own destiny are positive attitudes integral to managing stress. Lack of assertiveness or effective communication skills is a major contributor to stressful situations. Being assertive allows you to express your feelings, attitudes and opinions clearly and firmly without hurting others. You have certain rights. When you give way to pressure or the demands of others you are allowing your rights to be compromised.

Your assertive rights

  • I have the right to say no.
  • I have the right to make decisions that suit me without justifying them to others.
  • I have the right to say state my needs and express my point of view.
  • I have the right to be myself, decide my own actions and deal with the consequences.
  • I have the right to get it wrong occasionally.
  • I have the right to change my mind.
  • I have the right to not be expected to know everything.
  • I have the right to my own time.
  • I have the right not to do things I am uncomfortable with.
  • I have the right to be happy.

If this is an area of particular concern to you, have a look at the learning guide on assertiveness.

Self talk

It is amazing how hard we can be on ourselves. We highlighted earlier the little voice inside our head interpreting events and situations. Controlling this voice and making it work for us is an important part of managing our perceptions of stressful events. Our internal chatterbox is amazingly resilient. For instance look at how our self talk can effect perceptions of events.

Changing perceptions

Example of a situation:

You did not get the promotion you hoped

Perception:

I’m useless, not good and they know it.

Alternative perception:

I did my best. I’ll ask for feedback and learn from the situation.

I’m not a failure if I don’t make it – I’m a success because I tried

Think about your internal chatterbox and how it interprets events for you. Does it help or hinder you? If it is positive and reinforcing, great. If not, be aware of your self talk and your thought processes so that you can intervene appropriately when your thoughts interfere in a negative way, with an alternative positive form of self talk. Use positive affirmations – ‘I can…’ ‘I will…’ when you find yourself thinking negatively. The more you use positive affirmations the more automatic they become. Have a go at the exercise on automatic thoughts in the activities section.

Time management

Whatever you read about stress management, it will invariably consider aspects of time management. Time, that precious increasingly elusive commodity that gets less and less. Time management is about planning and using your time in the most effective and efficient way. It is about controlling and scheduling activities so that you are always in control. If time management is a problem for you, try this short exercise.

Look at your diary for the next two weeks and identify the demands on your time :

  • What pressures on your time are generated by colleagues, your boss, employees?
  • Are there more effective ways of getting things done?
  • What problems are generated by you own lack of planning, delegation assertiveness?
  • Are you trying to do everything yourself?
  • What could be delegated?
  • Are you prepared for the unexpected?
  • Are time frames realistic?

For more in depth information there is another learning guide specifically on time management.

Physiological approaches to stress management

This approach focuses on raising awareness and reducing the physiological response to stress. There is a variety of techniques available that can be used in a number of different circumstances. Many will need to be practised and used regularly to be effective, others you can use as the situation demands. Psychological and physiological responses to stress are linked, in that psychological perceptions of stress will ultimately affect a physical response, as we saw in the fear, fright and flight response.Methods for reducing physical tension aim to influence this mind-body connection.

Stress management activities which can be learnt include meditation, relaxation techniques, yoga, visualisation, biofeedback, to name but a few. Procedures such as massage, reflexology, aromatherapy can all help to complement stress management strategies. They have many elements in common – finding what best suits you is a matter of trial and error and personal choice.

  • Muscle relaxation techniques are used to physically relax major muscle groups, by systematically relaxing parts of the body. Quick relaxation techniques are available along with more lengthy progressive relaxation techniques. To try some of these techniques, try development activities 4 and 5.
  • Visualisation uses images to visualise events in a positive way, or as part of a relaxation procedure. Look at development activity 3 and try out the visualisation technique.
  • Biofeedback involves using a biofeedback machine, an instrument which provides feedback to individuals on the level of muscle tension within the body. This allows for greater awareness of physical tension, enabling an appropriate relaxation response.
  • Meditation as part of a daily routine has been shown to have major physical and psychological benefits. It helps to refocus the mind, relax the body and enhances creativity. Transcendental meditation is the most popular form and is easily learnt.

Lifestyle

Lifestyle activities are equally important, and include physical exercise, a healthy diet, social activities, engaging in enjoyable hobbies and pastimes, to name a few. The learning guide on lifestyle planning gives more information in this area, but below are some general points.

Exercise and diet

There is an abundance of evidence promoting the benefits of exercise on psychological health, including increases in academic performance, assertiveness, confidence, well being and work performance [(6)]. Other benefits include decreased absenteeism from work, alcohol abuse, anxiety and depression. Exercise has both physical and psychological benefits, releasing tension and raising feelings of well being. Athletes have consistently been found to possess more desirable mental health profiles than non-athletes, rating lower than average on fatigue and depression [(7)]. Chemicals in the brain (beta-endorphins) have been implicated in feelings of well being and positive mood state. Literature also exists that establishes the link between physical activity and self esteem [(8)]. The evidence on type and amount of exercise required to promote these benefits is not clear, although low intensity exercise such as brisk walking can be beneficial in people unused to exercise. The benefits of regular exercise are overwhelming. The message seems to be, if it is regular, involves an increase in aerobic activity and is enjoyable then it will have benefits. The importance of diet in relation to stress is less conclusive, nonetheless, the effects of poor diet in relation to energy levels, the immune system and the obvious effects of obesity on health are well documented.

Hobbies and social activities

Think about how often you spend time doing things that you find enjoyable and interest you. Make time to recharge your batteries. These can be anything from listening to music, walking, gardening or simply just being. If you have a demanding work life then you will need to consider what time you have available, but do not say ‘you don’t have time’! Time out is important, even if it is only for a short period. Plan and schedule activities so that they do not become a burden or a pressure in themselves.

To summarise

  • Avoid being a victim to stress – take action.
  • Learn to recognise the symptoms of stress.
  • Identify the sources of stress, what can be changed and what cannot be changed.
  • Recognise your strengths and weaknesses but keep a positive outlook, see the challenge.
  • Manage tasks, time, pace yourself, delegate
  • Learn to say ‘no’.
  • Look after your health, exercise regularly.
  • Be realistic about what you want to achieve.
  • Practise relaxation techniques, meditation, look for the silver lining.
  • Do not bottle it up or blame others; identify strategies that work for you.
  • Be aware of negative thought processes, replace with positive feelings of self worth, ‘I can…’ ‘I have the right to…’.
  • Keep a sense of humour.
  • Build support networks.

Organisational stress

It has now become recognised that stress is an occupational health problem. Occupational stress can have a major impact on the individual and on the organisation. Increasingly it is responsible for absenteeism from work, increased staff turnover, opportunity costs, disability, reduced productivity and increased health care costs. Continuous change, downsizing, delayering, redundancy, closures, reorganisations all have effects on both employees and managers. It is estimated that 50% of working days are lost due to stress related illness [(9)].

Sources of stress at work can be many.

  • Too much work/too little work.
  • Time pressures, deadlines.
  • Fear of redundancy.
  • Low control over work, lack of role clarity.
  • New technology.
  • Management style.
  • Conflicting demands.
  • Long hours.
  • Over/under promotion.
  • Lack of resources, support.

Stress is commonly perceived as the privilege of managers, coming with job promotion and increased responsibility. In fact this is simply not the case. Managers do of course have their own stressors, targets, deadlines, but stress is no respector of rank. It can effect all individuals within an organisation. Employer responsibility for managing work pressure in employees was highlighted recently in a case where a council worker successfully sued his employer, Northumberland County Council [(10)]. Work related stress was directly implicated in causing the employee two nervous breakdowns.

When organisations face constant change in order to respond to market pressures, they now have an extra responsibility towards those who work for them, ensuring that when an organisation undertakes major change it is managed and communicated in an open and honest way. Staff need to be informed and consulted in order to avoid frustration and insecurity. In openly communicating change, there is an opportunity to promote the positive aspects of the change and the business reasons behind the need for the change.

What can the organisation do to help? The Health Education Authority [(11)] recommend 10 areas for action :

  1. Overhaul company culture.
  2. Review management styles and practices.
  3. Encourage participation and control in all areas of work.
  4. Assess co-ordination and communication systems.
  5. Encourage the development of good personal, professional and industrial relations.
  6. Value and give recognition to employees.
  7. Make adequate preparation for planned change.
  8. Clarify job roles.
  9. Redesign jobs where appropriate.
  10. Improve the physical environment.

Further to this, the organisations should consider:

  • how staff are developed, supported and appraised, eg stress management training, time management, assertiveness, conflict management training, teambuilding and other relevant development programmes.
  • what resources are available to employees to prevent or minimise the occurrence of stress at work, eg health promotion programme exploring aspects of health and lifestyle, counselling, occupational health.

References

  1. Lazarus, R.S. (1966), Psychological Stress and the Coping Process, McGraw-Hill.
  2. Arroba, Tanya; James, Kim (1992), Pressure At Work : A survival guide for managers, 2nd Ed. McGraw-Hill.
  3. Atkinson, J. M. (1988), Coping with Stress at Work, Thorsons.
  4. Holmes, T.H; Rahe R.H. (1967), The social readjustment rating******scale,Journal of Psychosomatic Research, Vol. 11(2), p213 – 218.
  5. Shedd, John (1987), in Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, Susan Jeffers, Rider Publications, p78.
  6. Cramer S. R. et al. (1991),The effects of moderate exercise training on psychological well being and mood state in women, Journal of Psychosomatic Research, Vol. 35, p437-449.
  7. Weyerer S and Kupfer B. (1994), Physical exercise and psychological health, Sports Medicine, Vol. 17(2), p108-116.
  8. Hughes J.R. (1984), Psychological effects of habitual aerobic exercise: a critical review,Preventive Medicine, Vol. 13, p66-78.
  9. MIND (1992), The Mind Survey: Stress at work.
  10. Industrial Relations Law Reports 35 (1994), Walker v Northumberland County Council, QBD.
  11. The Health Education Authority(1988), Action on Stress at Work.

Activities

Development activities

PLEASE NOTE: Data entry within the developmental activities of this learning guide cannot be saved or stored to your PC. We recommend that you print this section and complete the activities as suggested.

  1. Life events
  2. Problem solving
  3. Using imagery to relax
  4. Halt a stress response
  5. Rapid relaxation
  6. Challenging automatic thoughts

The following development activities are exercises intended to help you identify stress, and provide an opportunity to practise various relaxation and cognitive techniques.

1. Life events

Fill in the table below thinking about you current situation. Using the following scale:

1 = Not currently affecting you 5 = Affecting you significantly

Event Scale
Bought/sold house 1 2 3 4 5
End of long term relationship 1 2 3 4 5
Marriage 1 2 3 4 5
Marital problems 1 2 3 4 5
Divorce 1 2 3 4 5
Problems with family 1 2 3 4 5
Problems at work 1 2 3 4 5
Changed jobs 1 2 3 4 5
Taken on mortgage/bank loan 1 2 3 4 5
Illness in family member 1 2 3 4 5
Death of partner 1 2 3 4 5
Personal emotional or physical Illness 1 2 3 4 5
Personal illness requiring hospitalisation 1 2 3 4 5
Birth of new baby/grandchild 1 2 3 4 5
Problems with friends or neighbours 1 2 3 4 5
Threat of redundancy 1 2 3 4 5
Unemployed 1 2 3 4 5
Legal/insurance problems 1 2 3 4 5
Family members left home 1 2 3 4 5
Death of family member/friend 1 2 3 4 5
Financial problems 1 2 3 4 5
Retirement 1 2 3 4 5

Add up your scores and plot below:

2. Problem solving

Do this exercise to assess how you can influence the causes of pressure in your life.

  • Looking at the list of life events above, choose an area which is of particular relevance to you at the moment.
  • Describe the problem.

Be specific in describing what the pressure is. For example, ‘Because I always get a job done, I find that I’m the one who is always drafted in to supervise projects, but I’m finding it harder to keep up’.

Can you influence the problem?

Consider what aspects of the problem are under your control, what can you change? List them below.

Totally within my control:

Partly within my control:

Outside my control:

  • Looking at the areas within your control, what actions could you take to relieve the pressure?
  • What sources of support do I need/are available to me?

3. Using imagery to relax

Recreating pleasant images or visualisation techniques can help you to relax. Try this out somewhere quiet where you will not be disturbed. When you become more used to doing it, you can use it in more distracting situations eg on the train. Think of an image that you find relaxing, that makes you feel good. It could be:

  • sitting by a riverbank.
  • a garden scene.
  • a tropical beach.
  • walking in the hills.

While you are visualising the scene, think about the senses. What can you see, hear, smell, touch, taste? Try this:

Find somewhere comfortable to sit or lie down. Imagine that you are sitting under a shaded palm tree on a warm sunny beach. Your eyes are closed and you feel warm and relaxed. You can feel a gentle breeze on your face and gradually you become aware of the sounds of the rhythmic lapping of the waves on the shore, matching your own breathing, effortless, slow and soothing. You feel warm and safe. You slowly open your eyes to look out on to the sea.

You become aware of a sailing boat on the distant horizon, slowly making its way over the sea. The sun is gradually sinking, and as it sets the sky takes on hues of orange and gold. As you sit there watching the sun go down, you feel more and more relaxed. More and more at peace, calm, content and happy. Your body is completely relaxed, warm and light. As the boat slowly disappears over the horizon, the sun sinks lower and lower. As it sinks in the sky you become more aware of the room you are in and where you are sitting. You feel content, happy and relaxed. You feel alert, alive and fully of energy, yet you are calm and relaxed. When you get up and move around, keep this feeling of relaxation with you.

Challenging situations

You can use this visualisation technique to help you cope with stressful or challenging situations. Identify a particular situation that has the potential to make you feel anxious and stressed. Imagine this situation going well. What would it look like?

Get in touch with the feelings and think about how good you feel that it has gone well.

4. Halt a stress response

  1. Smile.
  2. Relax your facial muscles, un-crease your forehead.
  3. Relax your jaw, let your lips part.
  4. Drop your shoulders and let your arms go loose and heavy.
  5. Focus on your breathing, which is becoming slower and deeper.

5. Rapid relaxation

Carry this out 6 – 8 times per day if possible. It should take about 30 seconds to complete with practice. Sit in a comfortable chair and tense all your muscle groups at the same time. You can do this by :

  • Clenching your teeth, squeezing your eyes shut and pressing your lips firmly together.
  • Clench your fists shut hard.
  • Hunch your shoulders.
  • Straightening your legs, and bring your toes up toward your head.
  • Maintain this position for 5 – 10 seconds.
  • Then let everything release. Collapse like a rag doll and feel the tension leaving your body. Take a few slow deep breaths and relax.

6. Challenging automatic thoughts

Think about a situation or an event which your internal chatterbox perceived in a negative way. Complete the following exercise.

Describe the situation.

Now New approach
What did you say to yourself? Constructive self talk
What did you feel? What would you feel now?
Would this influence you in similar future situations? How would this make you react?

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